who…me? a housewife? September 5, 2007
Posted by bebenibadoodles in Getting Married.trackback
Housewives have the greatest tale to tell. They are the hidden warriors of every home and the hero of every child…. i should know as my Mama has been and will always be the hero in my eyes and she lives her life up to this day providing the daily needs of my Daddy and two more siblings under their custody.
3 months to go and i shall be Mrs. Badoodles. For the past seven years, it has always been an interesting discussion between both of us when the issue of being a working m0m or a full time hosewife…
The allure of staying at home and never having to worry about the stress of daily life outside the home is intoxicating. Imagine waking up in the morning and taking my sweet time in the porch with a warm cup of coffee and not having to think about being late for work and beating endless deadlines.
To be a full time wife would mean having enough time to go to the spa and yes, of course shopping until i erode our savings dry.
Staying at home will have all its perks and glory, but at the end of it all… i realize that it is not my nature to stay home and wait for my family to be home.
After all, despite my ever hectic and busy life in the office i still can take all the time in the world to do the things a woman enjoys such as parlors and shopping without stripping my man of the feeling of being well taken care of.
I have nothing against housewives because they are the ones who raise better and more successful Filipinos, but when it comes to me, i would rather be a career woman / wife / mom to the family i am about to call my own.
good, and i dont think pareng badoodles will be ok of you being a full time housewife…coz if he got no prob with that then i gonnna kick is ass
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Elows Pepe… kaya siguro wala nagco comment sa akin kasi di din nila makita cursor… hekhek.
Ewan, sabi ko nga sa kanya last night, siguro if i’d stop working maximum na yung mag last ako sa bahay for 1 week ng hindi nagkaka nervous breakdown!
Today, its practical na dual income sa family. Kaya most women pursue their careers rather than stay at home.
Kung kaya ko sana mas gusto ko na yung wife ko will just be at home. Pero ayaw din ng gf na na maging ganun siya especially na maganda pa ang takbo ng career niya.
But I totally salute all housewives. I saw how my mother worked hard at home para sa amin. Para sa akin its one of the best jobs in the world. Kaya da best din yung mga naging anak nya.
Halu Jinoe… tama ka diyan. May nabasa akong research noon na pag full time ang mother mas better behaved and more successful later in life ang mga anak.
Kaya lang at this time and age, competitive na rin kami and we want to have a career of our own rather than depending solely on what the husband can provide…
bebeKo, wala taung porch hehe. ung terrace naten na 12 inches ang lapad e pinagtatambayan pa ng manok na texas nung kapitbahay. hehe. mainis ako dun titinolahin ko un…
daya mu talaga. kunyari di mo naaalala ung usapan natin nuun nuun pa, sabi mo gusto mong maging full time housewife tapos pagdating ko weh nakahanda na shorts saka slippers ko… hehe. jok onli. labs u.
Please wait before making that final decision!
Bebeko alala ko pa yun… April 30, 2000 @ 6:00 PM dun sa ilalim ng puno na patio ng Cathedral bago ako pumunta ng Bulacan para sa first job ko….
Parang mas carry yata ng kagandahan ko ang mag work at maging super nanay at the same time kasi feeling ko magiging mas productive ako as a person kung ganun. Lam mo naman ako di sanay ng walang ginagawa…
Hi Miriam… that is so true! Although they say that being a housewife is the most noble profession, i still could not see myself as one!
haha. ang naiisip ko dyan sa word na “housewives” eh desperate.. haha.. salute to the mothers around the world.. lagi ako may baon dahil kay nanay!!!
mas masaya pa rin kung magiging career woman. mas nakakapagod ang walang kasama at walang ginagawa sa bahay.
Hi Padre Salvi… for some reason eh kinukulit na naman ako ng nanay ko na sumunod sa mga pamahiin at paniwala niya. I have nothing against it… but ewan ko ba sa nanay ko feeling niya until now baby pa rin ako!
Hellows Tim… masaya lang yun siguro pag baby pa ang mga kids at may nilalaro pa but when the time comes na nag aaral na sila, sabi ng fwenships ko pati pag slam ng door nakaka praning na tapos feeling mo napag iwanan ka na ng panahon.
Baka pag nangyari iyon sa mental na ako dalawin ng bebeko….
thanks so much for welcoming me here in wordpress. take care olweiz! =)
uy! kongrats in advance po
ganda ng wedding invites nyo nyan — “you are cordially invited to the nuptial ceremonies of mr. and mrs. badoodles.”
hehehe… ankyut!
salamat sa pagbisita sa aking blog!
and congrats sa iyong nalalapit na wedding! nagkaka-jitters ka na ba? hehe.
My mother studied, when I was a little. After that she stayed home, when my sister and brother were little. Yet she was much happier, when she worked and we were also much happier, while she worked. Not all women are best at home. So don’t choose against your heart – what ever is its opinion – just because others think you should.
Hi Raindreamer… thanks for the assurance! Cheers to your Mom.
Hi Miaka… thanks for visiting!
Hi Taroogs.. kaya nga, nakaktawa naman ata yun pero looking forward naman ako na maging official Mrs. Badoodles!
Aloha Kurokuroko…. minsan jittery pero pag marami na ako work nawawala na yung jitters. Hekhek!
you can wear the fishkini for your honeymoon spa, hehe. i am a full time mom and am enjoying it, yun e kapag good girls ang makukulit kong bubwits
pero when i was younger, sabi ko i wanted to stay working kasi enjoy ko career ko e. pero medyo mahirap kasi wala ako sa pinas, walang katulong, walang taga bantay ng mga bata, walang taga luto (di ako marunong pero kesa magutom kami, nagtuto at biglang naging gourmet pa, exagg, hehe) etc… nung una kala ko rin kapag asa bahay ka e petiks petiks ka lang, nakows…nung nag-ka anak ako? wala na akong panahon para sa sarili ko. kasi nga mag shopping online ko na ginagawa sa gabi kapag tulog sila e. pero ngayong asa kindergarten na sila pareho, enjoy ko na ulit ang time ko. pwede na ko mag spa, hehe. at dami ko na ring part time ek-eks — so yan ang comment na napakwento na pala 
ang moral of the story? it would be all up to you. good luck.
when i was a kid, i always wished that i would be a housewife when i grow up. just like my mom. up to now, i still think, when i get married (a little after yours and badoodles’), i wanna be a full time housewife, esp. when kids get in the picture. but my boyf doesn’t want that. my cousin, who started as a housewife, is working now also. and i see her happier now. she was so funny then, everytime we get to see each other, non-stop talk talaga. ang sabi nya, pagbigyan na daw kse wala sya kausap sa haus nya.
i’m still not decided yet on whether i’m going to continue working (after i become a mrs). but i guess i have to. i mean, i need to. how else can i pay my bills? hehe.
i once advised your badoodles to attend/go to bridal fairs.malimit kse they give major discounts.and it can give you ideas rin for your own. (ay sori, naging nobela)